I'm sorry, I can't feel your love or concern to me. All I feel now is that you are acting like your father in some ways. I guess that's where our family is disadvantaged. We don't know how to love or express love.
If you ask me to give you a hug or you give me a hug, I would feel extremely awkward. If you ask me to express words of love or concern, I find it awkward too.
And expressing love and showing concern should start from young so that when we grow up, we know how to love others. It's too late now to force and want me to show whatever I've not learned.
Or is it not too late? Can it still be learned? I don't know. I need to change my mindset and temper too, maybe.
Perhaps I need join the "Love Me department" too.